The Perfect Relationship

[choodee]

@heiha: Dan bayangkan segitu banyak masalah mreka masiiih bisa senyuummm dan bahagia!!!!! Yg gw liat di situ kualitas relationshipnya heiha, bukan kualitas hidupnya

Tapi bagi gw, inti dr perfect relationship itu adalah CINTA

Perasaan yearning ke partner, bahagia hanya karena kehadirannya~~~

deskripsi perfect relationship yg di posting TS malah kek relationship yg diidam2kan para geek, maen video game bareng pasangan, kalo gw kerjaannya ngomel2 mulu kalo partner maen video game sampe lupa makan

@tsu kenapa gelang berlian ga boleh? Gw mending milih gelang berlian drpd mobil (berliannya seharga mobil tapi ) kalo disuruh milih antara villa sih jelas gw milih villa.....atas nama gw

[cha_n]

Agree doong

Cuma emang baca slogan TS...cuma berpikir, menikah/berpaasangan, tidak sesimpel itu

iya bener
aku tetap merasa hubunganku ini istimewa dan sempurna walau, aku ga misahin tagihan2 yang masuk, semua dibiayai bersama,
walau sesekali mempermasalahkan hobi kalau sudah diluar kontrol, entah itu hobiku, atau hobi dia, intinya kami sama2 saling mengingatkan akan prioritas2 kami,
walau kadang ada perasaan curiga dan rasa cemburu, karena itu tanda kami saling memperhatikan,
walau argumen2/debat2 kami ga semuanya debat yang "cute" ; kami mikirin hal2 besar maupun hal kecil lainany, yang menurutku sama sekali ga "cute"
tentang gimana mengelola keuangan, mengelola bisnis, tentang apakah aku bekerja apa di rumah saja, mau tinggal di mana, apa perencanaan keuangan ke depan, tentang pendidikan anak, tentang investasi jangka panjang, sampai hal teknis seperti jemuran mau dipasang di mana, siapa yang nyebokin hegel, siapa yang ngangkatin jemuran, dst karena dengan segala perdebatan ga cute itulah kami sama2 belajar tentang makna hidup sebenarnya, saling mengenal pasangan dengan sesungguhnya, saling membangun fondasi yang kuat, dan membuat kami bisa maju lagi lebih gagah ke depannya

ngga punya anak, tabungan jebol mulu, impian ga kesampaian, kerjaan monoton dan membosankan, ditinggal mati istri dulu, dikenal sbg tetangga judes, rumah terancam digusur di hari tua..

hahahahaha

[noodles maniac]

Hehe sorry nih TS gw gak baca artikelnya

I don't belive such thing... "a perfect couple" because for me every couple has its own problem

Tiap2 pasangan membawa masalahnya sendiri2. Nah justru gw bisa terima pasangan yang sempurna itu adalah pasangan yang bisa menerima ketidaksempurnaan yang ada pada mereka. Mereka bisa berpelukan mesra setelah bertengkar hebat, mereka bisa gak makan demi melihat anak2nya makan, mereka hanya tersenyum ketika orang-orang sekitar bergosip tentang pasangan yang mereka miliki. Gw muslim dan gw selalu percaya gak akan ada orang yang bisa seperfect Rasulullah dan Khadijah, ataupun Ali bin Abi Thalib dengan Fatimah, bahkan seperfect ortu kita sendiri, yang bisa dilakukan adalah untuk mengikuti jejak mereka dan senantiasa berharap mudah2an bisa mendekati sempurna

belum Ca, masih usaha nih, mohon doa nya yah

tiap hari masih berasa pacaran

Bro... dengan tulus gw doain semoga lu lekas mendapatkan buah hati yang lu idam2kan, karena berdasarkan pengalaman temen2 gw yang dah merit dan memiliki buah hati itu menambah kedamaian dalam hidup lu. Anak merupakan pelipur lara yang efektif ketika lu sedih, mumet, pusing, kesel, sebel, bete bin bad mood. Bayangkan senyum polos, ketawa geli dan tentram tidurnya.


Intermezzo :
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Son : "How much money have you spent until you married with mom?"

Dad : "Well i don't know son, cause i'm still paying"

[BundaNa]

TS itu ngegelar teorinya. Tapi bayar tagihan sendiri2, kog kayak bukan pernikahan ya?

Siapa bayar tagihan listrik, air? Siapa beli beras?

Jadi inget yg bantu2 di rumah, dia sama suaminya begitu, hasil suami kerja buat beras, listrik sama belanja harian, hasil dia kerja buat nambelin yg kurang plus sekolah anak2nya. Hasilnya, dia terus yang nambel

[opera]

klo dari saya pribadi
gak pake split bill, dari masing masing gaji masuk 1 rek buat semua kebutuhan rumah tangga + tabungan, disisain dikit buat jajan masing masing.
yang sering menjadi masalah ya itu hobi... masi belum sikron
pengen nya maen game, wifi maunya ke mall

[tuscany]

Masih ada yang mengira perfect relationship itu exist ya

[TheCursed]

Relatively perfect banyak. Absolute perfect, ngga ada.

And, BTW, wifey PvP lah dengan suami anda sekali2. Toh dia juga sudah mau berkorban menemani anda ke mall kan ?

[mbok jamu]

Relatively perfect banyak. Absolute perfect, ngga ada.

And, BTW, wifey PvP lah dengan suami anda sekali2. Toh dia juga sudah mau berkorban menemani anda ke mall kan ?

Ndak tuh, mbok lebih suka shopping sendirian, lebih bebas. Lagian kasihan kalau hubby disuruh nunggu apalagi di bagian lingerie. In fact if there is a man at the lingerie section I'll give him a dirty look "what on earth are you doing here, you pervert"

Anyway, relationship yang begini ada koq. Tapi split bills-nya, mbok pakai debit card hubby, hubby pakai debit card mbok, prinsipnya "kalau lu boros pakai duit gue, gue juga bisa boros pakai duit lu". Respect!

Dan kita paling hobi wiken pagi-pagi keluar cari kopi dan sarapan then make fun of strangers in bahasa Indonesia. Sometimes end up having cute arguments over silly things and then go home to make up.

[TheCursed]

Ndak tuh,...

"A 2 person gang that nobody else is allowed to join.
It's them versus everyone else. "

Kayaknya perlu di garis bawahi nih. Deskripsi 'perfect relationship' yang kena banget.
Mendeskripsikan dari Bonnie and Clyde, sampe George VI dan Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon.

Ok, galian kabel singset-nya satu mbok. Btw, that pervert you saw is probably me.

[spears]

Alhamdulillah

[mbok jamu]

@TheCursed

So it was you!

Two-person gang, si cowok ndak mesti ngganteng, si cewek ndak mesti semohay, but smitten by each other.

[tuscany]

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him with peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his movements
So whats so hard about that?

HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY

It's really not too difficult but.... To make a woman happy, a man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
44. give her compliments regularly
45. Go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
50. give her lots of attention
51. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes.

BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY IMPORTANT
53. never forget
*birthdays
*anniversaries
*valentine
*arrangements she makes. —
DateFit 22 maret

[Alip]

BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY IMPORTANT
53. never forget
*birthdays
*anniversaries
*valentine
*arrangements she makes. —
DateFit 22 maret

... darn, I never remembered them ... ever...
No birthday gift, no anniversaries, no anything...


... maybe I should make them my pin number, but it is ill advised, isn't it?

[TheCursed]

Gimana dengan mereka yang bahkan nggak inget ulang tahunnya sendiri.... ?

[noodles maniac]

HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY

It's really not too difficult but.... To make a woman happy, a man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
44. give her compliments regularly
45. Go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
50. give her lots of attention
51. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes.

BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY IMPORTANT
53. never forget
*birthdays
*anniversaries
*valentine
*arrangements she makes. —

Mampus gak lo???

Even Superman cannot fulfil all of those things!!! Argh!

[TheCursed]

Mampus gak lo???

Even Superman cannot fulfil all of those things!!! Argh!

Jadi inget joke jaman dulu tentang pasangan suam-istri yang merayakan ulang tahun pernikahan.

[ndoz]

53 poin, banyak bgt...

[serendipity]

MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS...

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. If you are not in a relationship now, remember this for the second (or third) time around. It's never too late.

from my friend

[Agitho_Ryuki]

^
terlalu banyak huruf....
pusing...

[gogon]

tl ; dr
pasti cewek tuh yg ngarang.

men are not that complicated