What I Learnt Today

[mbok jamu]

I learnt today that I could never like a particular race; I just can't trust them. Helping each other is one thing, but taking credits for someone else's work is another thing. It is pure evil. So I asked God to teach her a lesson and He listened. She thought my calculations were wrong, so she decided to fix them all. But then the employees got upset and the Union thought her calculations were wrong. Well, since she claimed that she has fixed them she has to answer all their questions now. Ha ha..

Never had such issue working with Europeans or Chinese. Dunno about Indonesians, never worked with them before. I surely hope not. I'm a bit worried now should he get that job offer in Jakarta.

[mbok jamu]

It's time for a career change. This morning I woke up, opened the curtains, and suddenly took a big sigh thinking that it would just be another day.
I felt so bad, I felt so ungrateful. Why should I waste my life away? My job does not excite me anymore, I know it so well. I need a new challenge, I want to meet more people and perhaps run my own business one day. I just hope it's not too late.

[RAP]

When the bad times come, you can let them make you bitter or use tgem to make you better
Be brave even you're not pretend to be
No one can tell the difference
Count your blessings not your troubles

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When the bad times come, you can let them make you bitter or use tgem to make you better
Be brave even you're not pretend to be
No one can tell the difference
Count your blessings not your troubles

[heihachiro]

I learnt that Adam Young's face is a wee bit similar with Lionel Messi

[mbok jamu]

^ You're right, they could be brothers.

I learnt today that my headache is work and stress related. I really can't be bothered to go to work, it's almost 11 o'clock I am still here, at home in my pj. There is a job vacancy somewhere, should I apply for it? Should I get my CV ready now?? It has been a while since my last job interview, I feel nervous already.

[ga_genah]

my English is very bad

[Alethia]

i learnt that the morning sun could not rise me up.
Im no Josh Groban indeed
But I keep on walking
I only know, even this, such a rumble of heart
Once touched by Thee, O God

Asikkk
eh Ameen

[mbok jamu]

It's so hard to be ikhlas. I have to take a deep breath every time I realise that Papi will not be there anymore. He loved being home waiting for all his kids to come then hugging them with tears in his eyes. But there were also times when Papi was so distant, perhaps he missed Kakek and his friends who had been long gone. He would then see them waving at him. He is in much better place now, reunited with Kakek and Nenek again.

[Shaka_RDR]

I learn that life isn't fair. even though i always treat people the same way i want to be treated, usually they'll just take it for granted and never treat me back in the same way.

[mbok jamu]

Com'on, Shaka. It can't be that bad. Those people probably just don't know how to treat others. I got no kids and could have easily thought that life has been unfair but hey, life is what you make of it, or what you choose not to make of it. Be resilient and don't let them change the way you see life.

[Shaka_RDR]

it is THAT bad mbok.
just for example -not actually happened, but it's almost the same in essence- : when they don't have any money i am willingly to lend mine thinking that though i have my own needs they are all tertiary needs and not urgent. but when i only need SMALL CHANGE 2000 rupiahs to pay for parking fee (i only have 50k and 100k at that time), NOBODY lend it to me even though i ask and they were suspicious that i want to steal that money from them.


can't say it out loud, but yeah... life's sucks.

i am just a genie in a bottle for them.

[mbok jamu]

OK, that sucks.

But dude.., you should have known better. Don't ever lend money to anyone. If you care about them, just give them the money. If you don't, tell them to pi$$ off and leave you in peace.

Don't let it overcome you, learn from your mistake and move on.

[jojox]

yeah well, i also learned that lending money isn't always good at moral ethics to some extent.
Sure, we wanted to help and made us feel good too by doing so. But by the time we need the money and it aint there, that is just wrong.
Especially when it involves larger bills of our own blood and sweat. Quite bizarre that good deed backfires sometimes.

[mbok jamu]

One day I learnt that it is not being kind but passing on the kindness to other people. When you think you are being kind to others, most likely you will expect the same in return. However if you think you just pass it on, you will let it go, never think of anything in return. Not even a praise.

[jojox]

True, the other thing I learned that when we do random kindness unconditionally, it'd start to move good things to happen or to certain direction.
Some says that means investing in people rather in gold, stocks or blue chips. So that when all things fade away, we'd eventually rely on people, good people.

[cha_n]

every time i learn some thing i realize that my knowledge is nothing

[mbok jamu]

A sibling just got married, moved to north and never told me until last night, on Facebook. Why bother?

If you think people will judge you because you like to judge others, then don't bother. Keep it to yourself coz who really cares anyway? Who really cares about others? If something bad happen to you, they will say kasihan and then they will move on. If something good happen to you, their world will keep revolving too.

Weird.

[Alethia]

This morning, i learnt that the whole world are telling me lie about happiness, it is not in your lover's eyes or in the face of your children.
Its simply in the cup of coffee, left on my table, hot and untouched.

God Bless chickpea!

[Bi4rain]

^sounds like my kind of happiness.

I learned, or realized, that people who hold moral values as mine are getting smaller in population.
I don't believe *** before marriage but apparently the whole world shows me that it's something normal, probably as normal as bickering between kids.
That.....sucks.
I'd be happier if they satisfy themselves with their truest Fbuddy..........mr.right hand

[mbok jamu]

@Bi4rain

Look at the bright side, you are different, unique! Like an antique you are desirable because of its rarity.