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    Seberapa penting?

    Khusus buat bapak-bapak/suami-suami/opa-opaSeberapa penting sih bercinta dengan istri? Seminggu mesti berapa kali? Ceritanya kan mbok belakangan ini sibuk banget. Pulang kerja, kerja lagi atau belajar. Wiken kalau ndak ngurusin bisnis ya belajar, ngurusin rumah, setrikaan, cucian. Ndak ada waktu buat hubby. Lama-lama koq rasanya dia menjauh. Simbok sampai sempet mikir, jangan-jangan dia selingkuh? Sampai sedih deh. Tiba-tiba mbok ada waktu buat dia. Happy ending. Score. Paginya dicium bertubi-tubi deh. Segitu pentingnya kah bercinta buat laki-laki. Koq buat mbok rasanya ndak ngaruh ya?Mohon pencerahannya. Tengkyu
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    Obrolan kelas dewa ini mah

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    Err merasa bukan bapak2 , jadi ga bisa komen
    you meet someone
    you two get close
    its all great for awhile
    then someone stops trying
    Talk less, awkward conversations, the drifting
    No communication whatsoever
    Memories start to fade
    Then the person you know become the person u knew
    That how it goes. Sad isn't it?

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    ^
    Maksutnya 3 kali sehari setelah makan, Kong..?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fere View Post
    ^
    Maksutnya 3 kali sehari setelah makan, Kong..?
    Bukan fer, sebelum,sedang dan sesudah bercinta telp dokternya fer,?
    you meet someone
    you two get close
    its all great for awhile
    then someone stops trying
    Talk less, awkward conversations, the drifting
    No communication whatsoever
    Memories start to fade
    Then the person you know become the person u knew
    That how it goes. Sad isn't it?

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    jadi ibu2 ga boleh jawab ya?
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    Argh.. gara-gara kong Sur text-nya diedit jadi kacaw deh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cha_n View Post
    jadi ibu2 ga boleh jawab ya?
    Ibu-ibu nyimak dulu deh.
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    Wkkk bagi opa2 kayak gw, karna lagi kejar target adeknya cha cha, jadi bercinta harus sesauai "resep" dokter ::
    you meet someone
    you two get close
    its all great for awhile
    then someone stops trying
    Talk less, awkward conversations, the drifting
    No communication whatsoever
    Memories start to fade
    Then the person you know become the person u knew
    That how it goes. Sad isn't it?

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    Tapi normalnya 2-3 kali sehari
    eeh tretnya seberapa penting yah?
    Dikit cius ,Pentinglah dari skala 1 sampe 10, mungkin 8,5 tapi bercinta ga selalu six loh, maksd saya lebihh ke romance kalo saya lohh,soalnya tiap orang kan beda ::
    you meet someone
    you two get close
    its all great for awhile
    then someone stops trying
    Talk less, awkward conversations, the drifting
    No communication whatsoever
    Memories start to fade
    Then the person you know become the person u knew
    That how it goes. Sad isn't it?

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    Menurut gw penting bagi 2 belah pihak sih.

    Kalo buat cowo sih ngga perlu ditanyain ya seberapa penting nya

    Di keadaan keluarga gw yg sekarang punya 2 anak. Gw perlu tetap membuat perasaan istri gw tenang. Soalnya kalo udah punya 2 anak, otomatis body udah ngga kaya jaman single. Dan kaum wanita akan paranoid takut pasangan nya akan berpaling ke yg lebih seksi.

    Nah dengan "pertemuan" yg teratur akan meringankan beban paranoia yg wanita.

    bagi pria juga penting, apalagi jika yg wanita minta duluan. Yg pria akan merasa dibutuhkan.

    At least menurut gw gitu
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    Quote Originally Posted by porcupine View Post
    Menurut gw penting bagi 2 belah pihak sih. Kalo buat cowo sih ngga perlu ditanyain ya seberapa penting nya Di keadaan keluarga gw yg sekarang punya 2 anak. Gw perlu tetap membuat perasaan istri gw tenang. Soalnya kalo udah punya 2 anak, otomatis body udah ngga kaya jaman single. Dan kaum wanita akan paranoid takut pasangan nya akan berpaling ke yg lebih seksi.Nah dengan "pertemuan" yg teratur akan meringankan beban paranoia yg wanita.bagi pria juga penting, apalagi jika yg wanita minta duluan. Yg pria akan merasa dibutuhkan.At least menurut gw gitu
    Berarti kalau istri kelihatan seperti ndak butuh, karena kesibukan atau asli ngantuk, si suami merasa ndak dibutuhkan lagi? Berarti ada korelasi antara dedek yang bobo dan perasaan dibutuhkan dong?
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    Quote Originally Posted by mbok jamu View Post
    Berarti kalau istri kelihatan seperti ndak butuh, karena kesibukan atau asli ngantuk, si suami merasa ndak dibutuhkan lagi? Berarti ada korelasi antara dedek yang bobo dan perasaan dibutuhkan dong?
    Err kalo cuma 1 minggu mungkin suami bisa ngerti, tapi 1 bulan atau lebih? Ya pasti suami ada perasaan gitu mbok, persis kayak perasaan si mbok suami selingkuh gitulah , kalo bini lagi "tutup lapak" kan ada pepatah yg mengatakan There's more than one way to skin a cat,
    you meet someone
    you two get close
    its all great for awhile
    then someone stops trying
    Talk less, awkward conversations, the drifting
    No communication whatsoever
    Memories start to fade
    Then the person you know become the person u knew
    That how it goes. Sad isn't it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by surjadi05 View Post
    Err kalo cuma 1 minggu mungkin suami bisa ngerti, tapi 1 bulan atau lebih? Ya pasti suami ada perasaan gitu mbok, persis kayak perasaan si mbok suami selingkuh gitulah , kalo bini lagi "tutup lapak" kan ada pepatah yg mengatakan There's more than one way to skin a cat,
    Memulai usaha sendiri sibuknya bisa berbulan-bulan. Masa ndak bisa nahan lebih dari 1 bulan?

    Memangnya bisa meledak?
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    Quote Originally Posted by mbok jamu View Post
    Memulai usaha sendiri sibuknya bisa berbulan-bulan. Masa ndak bisa nahan lebih dari 1 bulan?

    Memangnya bisa meledak?
    Lah kalo si mbok sibuk gitu, berarti bukan cuma zex aja berkurang, perhatian juga kan? Misalnya hal kecil/simple yg suami mbok suka,mungkin juga hilang kan?
    Kalo saya misal tiap nonton bola dini hari,wifi pasti bangun sebentar cuma buatin kopi pahit, habis itu bobo lagi, nah hal kecil2 kayak gitu istri saya mungkin ga sadar betapa hal2 kayak gitu penting dan buat saya tambah sayang sama dia
    you meet someone
    you two get close
    its all great for awhile
    then someone stops trying
    Talk less, awkward conversations, the drifting
    No communication whatsoever
    Memories start to fade
    Then the person you know become the person u knew
    That how it goes. Sad isn't it?

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    penting banget.... kalau ngga bisa mimisan



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    no pict = hoax

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    Quote Originally Posted by et dah View Post
    no pict = hoax
    Err futu si fere lagi makan obat mau ett?
    you meet someone
    you two get close
    its all great for awhile
    then someone stops trying
    Talk less, awkward conversations, the drifting
    No communication whatsoever
    Memories start to fade
    Then the person you know become the person u knew
    That how it goes. Sad isn't it?

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    Penting!
    Biar gak dicap "sudah tua"
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    *** antara suami istri ? penting lah

    kan tugas suami kasih nafkah LAHIR dan BATIN
    klo dikasih nafkah lahir saja, ntar batin nya cari di orang lain, berabe dong

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    Iya, seks itu penting biar ndak pening.

    Tapi apakah buat para laki-laki ndak bercinta bisa ndak mencintai? Antara bercinta dan mencinta ada hubungan jarak pendek?

    Berarti kalau istri ndak bisa bercinta, suami ndak bisa mencinta? Istri harus buka lapak terus kalau ndak mau suami ngemil di luar?
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