It's scary to see things that I said would happened happen. I can't say "I've told you" coz I care about this person. Think about yourself, I said, coz nobody else would. Have a goal in your life, something that makes you smile when your time is up. Some have families as their goals, some have careers, some dedicate their lives for their countries or other people. It does not matter what it is so long as it's your own choice. You got to have "a baby" in your life, something to wake up to. Everyone else has made their choice now and left her wondering what she has done wrong. Sigh.