What's your boiling point?

[Porcelain Doll]

sejauh ini, paling marah tuh....waktu ada orang yg mengacak2 ketentraman keluarga
rasanya tiap ada kesempatan...di pikiran udah ada keinginan buat celakain orang itu balik
dengan sedikit saja dorongan....g bisa bikin mereka menderita...

tapi ya selamat sih sampe hari ini...belum ada kejadian

g sama kaya seren kayanya kalo nemu orang kaya gitu
bahkan mungkin bakal g suruh dia saat itu juga buat praktekin masakan yg lebih baik dari yg g bikin
jangan cuma bisa ngomong aja

[mbok jamu]

Kong Sur

Iya, adik ipar cowok dan cs dengan hubby makanya mbok berusaha sabar.

I simply quit cooking for them.
When they asked me why, I said with a completely serious face: "I fear my cooking taste does not fit yours. As you always complained about it. So, fell free to cook for yourself so you can better fit it with your taste. Just be mind full to use the ingredients sparingly."

Abis nonton stranger within. Si tamu yang jadi org asing mengeluarkan banyak kata-kata yg gak berguna.
Ya udah di usir sama yg punya rumah.
No, u dont over-reacted. If he is not important in your life, don't bother to care.
I wish u could see how good & fulfilling it is to spend time and... just to be alone sometimes.

g sama kaya seren kayanya kalo nemu orang kaya gitu
bahkan mungkin bakal g suruh dia saat itu juga buat praktekin masakan yg lebih baik dari yg g bikin
jangan cuma bisa ngomong aja

Sudah mbok silahken dia masak dan dia masak beberapa kali tapi setelah itu dapur simbok seperti kena gempa bumi, lokasi bumbu pindah semua, potongan sayur di mana-mana, belum panci/wajan yang kotor! You see, if he cooked he refused to clean up afterwards. Kalau dia masak, mbok atau hubby membersihkan dapur. Padahal kalau mbok masak, mbok juga yang membersihkan dapur.

Mbok sudah mengasingkan diri beberapa hari, nanti pulang ke rumah. Kalau mbok ndak pergi, I could've destroyed him, mentally.

[TheCursed]

... You see, if he cooked he refused to clean up afterwards.
.....

When it was happened to me, I frogmarched him/her to clean the kitchen.
He/She can yell, can scream, can fight tooth and nails, but in the end I will still left them in the middle of the mess they made.

In this case, I am not angry. I am just being unfettered.

I think, me being unnegotiable with my demand, complete determination and lack of expression unnerved them more....

being sabar <> letting things run the way they want to.

tapi lagi simbok nggak pengen hubby retak sama cs-nya, yah ? Atau simbok retak sama hubby karena kelakuan cs ?
I my case, I just don't care.